Austin Kevitch was in high school when he first came up with the idea for an app that would allow users to send compliments to each other anonymously. But it wasnâ€™t until tragedy struck years later that he decided to turn that idea into reality.Â
Kevitch was studying abroad in South Africa when his friend, Oliver Pacchiana, died in a rock climbing accident. Soon after, positive and loving messages flooded Pacchianaâ€™s Facebook wall. The tributes moved Kevitch deeply, and he imagined how much they would have meant to his friend if heâ€™d received them while he was alive.
â€œJust hearing one of those comments could change your life,â€ said Kevitch, now 25 and the CEO of the app Brighten. â€œI learned a lot about him just from what people were sharing. It was a wake-up call that the world needs something likeÂ [Brighten].â€
Today, Kevitch runs Brighten out of Santa Monica, California, with a six-person staff.Â The app, downloaded over 1 million times since its 2015 release, allows users to send out anonymous compliments called â€œbrightens,â€ although Kevitch says most people choose to identify themselves. Users can also send a snapshot of their smile to the person who complimented them.Â
Social media can be aÂ minefield of anxiety for many, so Kevitch has made it his mission to create a space thatâ€™s focused on spreading positivity.
â€œItâ€™s all about establishing a positive culture,â€ he said. â€œNo one is inherently bad. People just have bad days and project that negativity onto someone else.â€Â
The positivity is now spreading through communities and classrooms, with many educators embracing the app as an anti-bullying tool.
Lauren Naselli, a third-grade teacher in in Bridgewater, New Jersey,Â began using Brighten with co-teacher Courtney Rothkugel last year, after their principal encouraged them to test it out with students.
Since the school uses Chromebooks, students couldnâ€™t work with the actual app (Brighten is currently available only to iOS users), but Naselli came up with a low-tech way to teach the concept.
Each day, a different group of students received pieces of paper with hand-drawn iPhones on them. The students would write their own â€œbrightensâ€ on the papers and hand them out to different students each day.
â€œThey loved it,â€ Naselli said. â€œIt created a warm and comfortable environment. … Our class really lifted each other up and supported one another.â€
She reached out to Brighten to see if there was a version of the app she could use in her classroom. Kevitch said his team was so touched by her story that they sent Naselliâ€™s students free Brighten t-shirts. An Android version of the app is currently in the works.Â
Naselli said sheâ€™s â€œsuper sensitiveâ€ to bullying and was pleased to see how the Brighten-inspired activity created class unity.Â â€œThere are people with good hearts everywhere,â€ she said. â€œAnd I think this app can help bring that out.â€Â
Tim Cannon, who has been friends with Kevitch since high school, left his corporate job in Chicago to lead Brightenâ€™s community outreach program. He now works with more than 1,000 high school and college students who volunteer to promote the app on their campuses.Â
â€œTo know that Iâ€™ve at least given it my all to put something good out in the world â€• I wake up every day feeling grateful and appreciative and happy,â€Â he said.
Brighten recently partnered with the gun violence prevention organization Sandy Hook Promise forÂ â€œStart With Hello Week,â€Â a weeklong effort to fight social isolation. Students in more than 1,700 schools will be introduced to the app.Â
More than 20 percent of students ages 12 to 18 report being bullied, according to a 2015 survey conducted by the Department of Education.
Anti-bullying expert Dr. Malcolm Smith is optimistic about Brightenâ€™sÂ â€œpower to use social media to do good,â€ though he is hesitant to embrace the appâ€™s anonymity feature as a way to combat cyberbullying.
â€œAnytime a child can say something positive to someone â€• even if itâ€™s someone they donâ€™t know â€• it causes a very positive brain interaction,â€ Smith said of the app. â€œBut itâ€™s so much better for a personâ€™s soul to give a compliments in person.â€
First lady Melania Trump announced her desire to tackle online bullying in November. Though President Donald TrumpÂ frequently engages in cyberbullying on Twitter, Kevitch said he would gladly partner with the White House if it would spark positive change in society at large.Â
â€œI think itâ€™s going to benefit the current generation of high schoolers,â€ Kevitch said. â€œMelania, if youâ€™re reading this, text me. Send me a Brighten compliment.â€
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